Look -- when you're the bride (or groom), it's everyone's job to make sure that you get everything you need on your big day. I actually find this job very easy. You do what you have to do to get things done, and everyone gets it. You want to get married on a Wednesday afternoon? Cool. You want your bride's maids to get up at 6 to watch you get your hair done? Fantastic. You want everyone attending your bachelorette party to wear matching shirts? Hmm. Fine, but I'm designing them.